An unexpected pregnancy can be challenging to process, and when friends pressure you to choose abortion, it can feel even more overwhelming. First, know that you are not alone. You have the right to make your own decision at your own pace.
At 1st Way, we offer free, confidential support in a calm and compassionate environment. Schedule an appointment today to speak to our compassionate team.
Your Voice Matters Most
Friends may have strong opinions because they are concerned, have been unexpectedly pregnant themselves, or want to help you find a quick solution. However, their perspective isn’t the one that matters most—yours is. You are the one who is pregnant and whose future will be most affected by the decision.
It’s okay to pause for a moment and reflect on what you want. We offer a non-judgmental environment where you can sort through your feelings and explore your options.
How to Set Healthy Boundaries
If people around you are being too forceful, it’s important to protect yourself and set boundaries. Try using language like, “I appreciate your concern, but I need time to think on my own.” Letting others know you need space doesn’t mean shutting them out; it simply means prioritizing your well-being.
Sometimes stepping away from overwhelming or one-sided conversations can provide additional clarity. Taking a break doesn’t mean you’re being rude. It means you’re giving yourself space to think and breathe.
Learn About Your Options
When facing pressure, it’s easy to lose sight of what you truly want. That’s why a safe, supportive environment makes all the difference. At 1st Way, you can discuss your situation, ask questions, and explore all your options—parenting, adoption, and abortion.
You don’t have to face this situation by yourself. Schedule an appointment today. We’re here to listen, support, and walk with you every step of the way with free and confidential services.
